{"id":450,"date":"2018-08-08T13:34:07","date_gmt":"2018-08-08T13:34:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.chinmayaupahar.in\/blog\/?p=450"},"modified":"2018-08-08T13:34:07","modified_gmt":"2018-08-08T13:34:07","slug":"life-is-a-gift-living-is-an-art","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/index.php\/2018\/08\/08\/life-is-a-gift-living-is-an-art\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Is a Gift&#8230;Living Is an Art"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>What is a gift?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If we buy something for ourselves, it is purchase, and cannot be called a gift. Basically, a gift is given by someone else; given out of love. A bribe, though given by someone else, is not a gift, because there is an ulterior motive and an expectation behind the giving. A donation may not be gift because someone may have asked for it or even forced us to give it! When giving comes from the heart and out of love, when no one demands, and yet you give because you feel like giving, then it is a gift.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Life is a most precious gift<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As living beings, it is clear that we have life in us, but we cannot claim any right over it. The fact that we are living enables functions like seeing, hearing feeling, touching, smelling, acting, reacting, responding and achieving. Without life, what can one do? Life is most precious. When I get up, I feel that I am alive, and when I go to sleep, I have the expectation that I will wake up. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The medical profession that helps to sustain life evokes a great deal of respect in everybody, because life is so precious. We are willing to pay any price to preserve. Once, a bone got stuck in a man\u2019s throat and he almost choked. A doctor removed the bone surgically and saved his life. When he asked the doctor how much he should pay him, the doctor replied, \u201cPay me at least half of what you were willing to pay when the bone was still in your throat!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-471 size-large\" title=\"Life is a precious gift\" src=\"http:\/\/www.chinmayaupahar.in\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Life-is-a-gift-1024x730.jpg\" alt=\"Life: A gift\" width=\"1000\" height=\"713\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Life-is-a-gift-1024x730.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Life-is-a-gift-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Life-is-a-gift-768x547.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Life-is-a-gift-421x300.jpg 421w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Who gave us this gift?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only when there is life in us, everything else becomes possible. I did not buy this life. I cannot truly say that my parents gave it to me. I did not create it and cannot take credit for it. I may have created a lot of confusion in my life, but did not create life! It is a gift &#8211; but from whom? Who gave it to me? People with faith say that god gave it. Atheists say nature gave it. Whether it is nature\u2019s gift or god\u2019s gift it is a gift. And whenever we receive such a precious present, we must know how to use it. (Read about <span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.chinmayaupahar.in\/blog\/prayer\/\">Prayer &#8211; An invocation<\/a><\/span>)<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Easy to destroy, difficult to create.<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is very easy to abuse, misuse, not use or even destroy life. While making good use of life is difficult, destroying it is easy. Gautama Buddha was passing through a forest when the dreaded Angulimala, who killed people and wore a necklace made from their fingers, lived. No one had the courage to go through that forest. Angulimala saw Buddha, and was surprised to see him so calm, collected and without fear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He confronted him, \u201cAre you not afraid? My name is Angulimala!\u201d<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYes, I have heard of you. What do you do?\u201d said Buddha.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI kill.\u201d<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGreat indeed is your strength!\u201d replied Buddha and showed him a branch of tree and ask him to break it. Angulimala broke it.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cCan you join it back and make it a living thing?\u201d Asked Buddha.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNo,\u201d replied the puzzled Angulimala, \u201cI never thought of it\u201d.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Buddha pointed out, \u201cWhat is so great about your strength? You can only destroy and kill, but cannot give life!\u201d<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Angulimala fell at Buddha\u2019s feet and became a changed person. (Read about <span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.chinmayaupahar.in\/blog\/inspirational-story-of-a-smart-king\/\">The story of a smart king<\/a><\/span>)<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Gratitude for the gift of life:<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone gives us a gift we say, \u201cthankyou\u201d. We feel happy, obliged and grateful for the mere material things that we receive. Should we not be more grateful for the most fundamental gift of all &#8211; Life itself? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are thankful for a wrist watch, but who gave us the wrist? Who gave us life? How many times do we remember to thank god who gave us life? Sometimes people deny god\u2019s existence or destroy their precious gift of life. (Read about <span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.chinmayaupahar.in\/blog\/swami-chinmayananda-life-of-insipiration-and-service\/\">A Life of inspiration &#8211; Swami Chinmayananda<\/a><\/span>)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-472 size-full\" title=\"Be grateful to have the gift of life\" src=\"http:\/\/www.chinmayaupahar.in\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Gratitude.jpg\" alt=\"Showing gratitude towards life\" width=\"4752\" height=\"3168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Gratitude.jpg 4752w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Gratitude-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Gratitude-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Gratitude-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Gratitude-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/blog.chinmayaupahar.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Gratitude-450x300.jpg 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4752px) 100vw, 4752px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>Use the gift:<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A little boy received a violin as birthday present from his uncle. On meeting him after 10 days, he told the uncle that he really like the violin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSo, you have learnt to play it?\u201d asked the pleased uncle.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNo, but my mother gives me Rs.5 for not playing it during the daytime,\u201d smiled the boy.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAnd my father gives me Rs.5 for not playing it at night!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If I own a violin does not make me a violinist. I have to learn to bring out melodious music with practice and skill. A violin is a gift, but playing it is art. We have received life as gift. What are we doing with it? We must understand the purpose of life and learn how to live joyously and harmoniously. It is a lifelong process and every experience is a teacher. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Cherish the gift:<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All actions are possible only because of gift of life. In Spite of having this precious life, how many time do we complain that we do not have anything?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once, a boy was crying bitterly, saying he had no desire to live. An elderly person passed by and asked him why he wanted to die. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The boy said, \u201cI do not have anything, no money, no house, no parents. I want to die.\u201d The elderly person offered to help, but wanted something in return. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBut I just told you. I do not have anything,\u201d bemoaned the boy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The man convinced the youngster. He would not ask anything the boy did not have. \u201cI will give you Rs 10,000 , if you cut off your left arm and give it to me. I will give you Rs 20,000, if you cut off both your hands and give them to me. \u201c <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIf I give you both my hands, then with what I will receive the money?\u201d exclaimed the stunned boy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The wise man pointed out, \u201cOh! I see that you not only have hands, but also have the brains to think. Now, do you realize that you already have wealth worth millions. Can you still say you do not have anything?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence we should not be ungrateful to God who has given us everything. (<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff; text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.chinmayaupahar.in\/\">Buy gifts online in India<\/a><\/span><\/span>)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reference: Life Is a Gift. Living Is an Art &#8211; by Swami Tejomayananda<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is a gift? If we buy something for ourselves, it is purchase, and cannot be called a gift. Basically, a gift is given by someone else; given out of love. A bribe, though given by someone else, is not a gift, because there is an ulterior motive and an expectation behind the giving. 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